Last week i had came across this article which is discussing about Love,Relationship and Marriage..It mentioned about couples who are in long & Short term relationship.Some maybe dating for a few years but cant commit due to financial issues,some feels that they had not fully understand their partner habits due to the length of time they are together that's why they are afraid to commit..But have you ever wonder,if by prolonging the time can makes you FULLY understand & ACCEPT each other why they are couple who married after dating for 10yrs but end up divorce after few months?WHY?Usually their feedback will be like "We realise actually we are not compatible at all"What the hell rite?Why only realise after so many years of wasting each other time,youth & efforts..
There's a couple who is in their late fifties,got married just knowing each other for 3months plus,they start a family and their wedding vow seem to withhold till now..So can anybody tell me whether the length of time is really that important?Personally,i used to agree the length of time is important as we might need a longer time to scan through our partner's to review true colours,but thinking back if someone truly want to hide things from you he/she wont fall into trap that easily for u to find out,and if such things does happen means there's no sincerity's and it will be pointless to go into relationship.. To me the most important is how well & how much effort are we going to put in to understand someone,once you put in effort time wont get in your way..Feel comfortable with each other,share happiness/sadness,compromise each other,having fond memories together,ETC...
Life is so short,Youth is limited so how much time we still want to waste?Do whatever that makes you happy but make sure is worth doing.
I believe in fate and fate is in my hand i can chose to ruin or create it.
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